In our book, Five Big Ideas for Effective Teaching: Connecting, Mind Brain, and Education Research to Classroom Practice, Marcus Conyers and I give examples of what teachers can say to students to keep the focus on hard work and effort rather than on results alone:
- “All that effort you put into your homework has really made a difference—look how much your grade improved on this week’s quiz.”
- “I like how you looked up the definition yourself rather than just asking what the word means.”
- “If you work on your note-taking skills, you will have better materials to use when studying for the next test.”

